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Pascal left Joan’s ‘Golden Bachelorette’ because he was ‘the chosen one’: ‘Men Tell All’
The latest episode of *The Golden Bachelorette* delivered some explosive revelations during the “Men Tell All” special, particularly surrounding the dramatic exit of Pascal, who had previously left the show under what many considered mysterious circumstances. In an emotional and revealing interview, Pascal opened up about his decision to leave Joan’s journey for love, explaining that he left because he believed he was “the chosen one”—but not in the way viewers might have expected. His departure, which left fans puzzled at the time, took on new meaning as he shared the emotional depth and personal conflict that led him to walk away from the woman he had developed feelings for.
Pascal’s Initial Departure: A Shock to Viewers
When Pascal initially left *The Golden Bachelorette*, his departure came as a shock. Up until that point, he had seemed like a frontrunner, displaying both chemistry with Joan and a deep emotional connection that many viewers found genuine and heartfelt. His early moments on the show included meaningful one-on-one conversations with Joan, where they bonded over shared values, experiences, and the importance of family. He was often seen as someone who truly understood Joan’s journey, especially as a woman in her 60s seeking love after years of independence.
However, as the show progressed, Pascal’s presence began to diminish. His departure, when it finally happened, seemed abrupt and unexplained, leaving fans scratching their heads. It was especially surprising given the context that Joan had been vocal about how deeply she connected with him, making his exit one of the most dramatic and unexplained moments of the season. Speculation ran wild—had he been eliminated by Joan, or had he left voluntarily for reasons outside of the show? Some fans even wondered if he was playing a strategic game, manipulating the show’s narrative. Others felt that it was another example of the emotional complexities that come with trying to find love on national television, especially in the senior dating world.
### The Big Reveal at “Men Tell All”
During the *Men Tell All* special, Pascal took center stage to clear up the confusion and share his side of the story. He explained that, in the weeks leading up to his exit, he had felt a growing sense of internal conflict about his place on the show and his connection with Joan. He had been grappling with his feelings of both attachment and doubt, but it wasn’t until a specific moment in the competition that things became crystal clear for him.
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“I was starting to realize that my relationship with Joan was something different,” Pascal admitted, speaking directly to the camera. “I wasn’t just another guy in the running, trying to win her heart. I wasn’t playing a role in the show’s narrative—I was on a much deeper journey than that. I believed I was ‘the chosen one,’ but not in the way the show often portrays it. I had come to understand that I was the one who needed to make a choice, not Joan.”
### “The Chosen One”: A Deeper Meaning
For Pascal, the phrase “the chosen one” wasn’t about believing he was the ideal match for Joan or the front-runner in the game. It wasn’t about assuming that Joan would automatically choose him. Instead, Pascal saw himself as someone who needed to make a decision that was based not only on his feelings for Joan but also on his own emotional growth and his understanding of love in the context of the show.
He elaborated on how the experience of being on *The Golden Bachelorette* made him confront his own vulnerabilities, past relationships, and his true desires. Pascal revealed that, at one point, he had come to realize that his connection with Joan, while meaningful, wasn’t as deep as it had initially seemed. He didn’t want to be just another man vying for attention; he wanted to ensure that any relationship he pursued was truly aligned with his values.
“I looked around at the other men, and I could see how deeply Joan was connecting with them,” Pascal explained. “And I realized that I wasn’t in a place to fully embrace that kind of relationship. I needed to step back, not because I didn’t care about Joan, but because I needed to give her space to find the one who was truly ready for that next chapter. And maybe that wasn’t me. Maybe my role here was to step away so that she could find that person.”
### The Emotional Toll of Reality TV
Pascal also spoke candidly about the emotional toll that being on a reality dating show like *The Golden Bachelorette* can take on someone. While many fans watch the show from the comfort of their homes, it’s easy to forget the intense pressure, vulnerability, and personal growth that happens off-camera.
“People forget that we are all real people, with real emotions,” Pascal said, his voice breaking slightly. “We’re not just ‘contestants’ in a game. When you’re in that bubble, everything becomes so amplified. You’re constantly trying to connect with the person who’s making a life-altering decision. And when you start to question whether you’re truly ready for that kind of commitment, it’s hard to ignore those feelings. So I had to step away from that environment and take a long, hard look at what I really wanted.”
His decision to leave the show, though seen by many as a shock, was, in hindsight, an act of self-awareness. For Pascal, stepping away was less about rejecting Joan and more about rejecting the pressure and artificial constraints of the show’s format. He wanted Joan to find the man who would be ready to fully commit to her, not someone who was caught up in the spectacle of the competition.
### Joan’s Reaction and the Path Forward
Joan, who was also present during the *Men Tell All* special, spoke about how she had felt when Pascal left. Initially, she had been hurt and confused,